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Laura Belin's avatar

I copy edit a lot of guest author submissions and I often cut out "I think" or "I believe." It's a commentary, you can just state your opinion without qualifying it as "I think."

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Macey Shofroth's avatar

It physically feels like it softens my belief in whatever I have to say. I've become a much more confident writer and speaker since I've began working on cutting it out.

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James Kenyon's avatar

Macy- So creative and stimulating thoughts.

Years ago I eliminated that "I think" from my computing vocabulary. As a medical vocabulary (albeit a veterinarian) I found it much more assertive to use "I believe" when addressing a diagnosis and I was much more confident in the advice I was suggesting.

As far as that old-little-home-town and seeing those kids with a glass of beer in their hands-well I have not suggestion other that "I believe!" we all have to leave home and creative our own new comfortable writing room.

Keep on making new trails, Doc

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Macey Shofroth's avatar

I appreciate it, James!

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Faith Newton's avatar

Well said. It's something that is especially a problem for women. We are taught to tread softly and avoid conflict.

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Macey Shofroth's avatar

That's exactly it. I don't want to tread softly anymore!

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Chuck Offenburger's avatar

Macey, this column is brilliant, maybe your best yet. It’s something that all of us who’ve put words on paper (Ooops! That seldom happens nowadays.) will recognize.

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Macey Shofroth's avatar

Thank you, Chuck! I'm at an interesting time in my life where I feel myself growing up a bit, and this is just one step I've hit on that journey.

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