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Margaret Goff's avatar

What a beautiful tribute. When I moved to Iowa I became friends with a girl who was a refugee from Vietnam. Her name was Lan Pham. She lived several blocks away from me and was in foster care with an elderly church going couple. LAN assimilated quickly to American life.

LAN soon chose a new name for herself. Tara Beyer. She had a party one afternoon at her home when we were in the Ninth grade.

At the end of the year she moved to another school district, and we kept in touch by phone. Her brother came from Vietnam to the Detroit area and she left Iowa to live with him and his family. Her brother committed suicide. Tara moved to Arizona and we lost track of one another. I moved to , then Florida.

Tara never spoke about her life in Vietnam. I never knew if she didn’t remember, or didn’t want to talk about it.

I moved back to Iowa and have wondered where she is now.

I was so glad to have had the opportunity to have my refugee friend. She so embraced living in the United States.

There were so many Vietnamese refugees resettled in Iowa during the late 1970s. I only know some of the story of my friend Lan.

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Cheryl Tevis's avatar

I like your optimism, and I agree!

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